Plura

AURA - The Bay Area's Premier Event for Dominant Women and Those Who Love to Serve Them

  • Hosted by AfterDark Events
  • San Francisco, CA -
  • 131 people on the list-

A Unique Event

Aura is an inclusive BDSM party for self-identified dominant women of all types to come together to connect, learn, explore, and play. All bottoms, submissives, and slaves of any gender or orientation are encouraged to attend and also experience the fun, mystery, and intrigue that Aura has to offer.

We provide an unique environment that enables dominant women, along with those submissives that adore them, the opportunity to develop connections, and build community. AURA is about coming together to have fun; to support one another; to share, build, and grow a thriving & durable community.

AURA is the perfect opportunity to connect with other like-minded folks to help you explore, learn, and play.

Fun and Educational Demos

AURA will feature a fun and educational demo at every party. At this party we are proud to present the incredibly talented educator and entertainer Rain DeGrey who will run a fun and informative pegging demo!

Ice-breakers to Help You Connect

Role stickers will help you stand out to other attendees. Use our conversation starters to help meet new people. Aura will also be bringing back the Gauntlet for this event. This time we’ll do it towards the start of the party, around 9PM instead of at the end of the event.

Aura will Feature

  • Ice-breakers to help you connect including the return of the Gauntlet.
  • House top offering electrical play.
  • House tops offering impact play.
  • Entertaining and educational pegging demo by Rain DeGray
  • Dark fuck room, perfect for sexual play.
  • Cozy cuddle room for aftercare, pre-care, and non-sexual intimate touch.
  • Decadent morsels to snack on. Aura will always offer suitable options for our vegan guests.
  • Fully equipped and vibing dungeon with curated playlists to set the mood.
  • Outdoor social and play areas.

The Venue

The backdrop for the night will be Transform1060, a well-equipped community dungeon with attached social spaces and a courtyard in San Francisco.

All Are Welcome

Aura is an inclusive event. We welcome kinky adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. This is a body-positive event. We expect all attendees to honor the diversity of our community.

That being said, Aura is a safe space for self-identified dominant women and those who love them. Please respect the event by ensuring your energy and activity aligns with this type of dynamic for the evening.

Dress Code

Dress to impress! Dungeon blacks, lingerie, or fetishwear are always welcome. If nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a night out. You can be kinky, subversive, etc. No street clothes, sneakers, etc.

Be sure to make it to Aura and join in all the fun and excitement at the Bay Area’s hottest event of 2022 for dominant women! 

Important: You must be fully vaccinated,and boosted at least 2 weeks prior to the event.

This means you must have received your booster on or before 05/27/2022 and can demonstrate this with your official digital vaccine record. If you received your vaccination in California, please be prepared to show your vaccination record QR code and ID to the security staff upon arrival at Aura. You can visit the state website to get your QR code. We recommend that you screenshot the page for easier retrieval.

If you were vaccinated and/or boosted in a state or country without a digital vaccine record, see this Fetlife page.

Prior to being allowed to enter the party, the COVID-19 safety protocol for all guests is to:

  • Verify that they have been fully vaccinated and boosted against COVID-19 with a digital vaccine record (If you were vaccinated in a state or country without a digital vaccine record, see this page).
  • Take a rapid COVID-19 test at the door.
  • Agree to remain masked throughout the party, except when actively eating, drinking or engaging in oral play. N95, KN95 or other filtered well-fitted are required.

If a guest's rapid test is positive for COVID-19, they will be disallowed entry and receive a refund of their ticket, less the cost of the rapid test. The cost of the test is non-refundable.

More COVID-19 Safety Information For Our Events.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events. Any consent concerns can be given to the hosts at the party or here on Fetlife, with a promise of confidentiality if desired. Our consent guidelines are as follows:

  • Informed and voluntary consent is always required before play. The entire scope of any scene, including what parts of the body there may be contact with and the nature of such contact, should be negotiated prior to beginning any actual play.
  • People at our events come from different backgrounds and have vastly different life experiences. All attendees may expect to be treated by event staff and other attendees with respect irrespective of age, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, body type, disability, etc. We request that all guests afford event staff and other attendees the same.
  • People can expect that their persons and property shall not be touched without prior permission.
  • Attendees should not be addressed as “Mistress”, “Sir”, “slut”, “slave”, etc. or any potentially offensive terms or violating words unless they have given prior permission.
  • Each participant in a scene is responsible for making sure that everyone involved in the scene has the mental and emotional ability to give informed and voluntary consent for the scene. We consider people who are under the influence of substances, in subspace, or otherwise not in a clear state of mind to be incapable of giving informed and voluntary consent.
  • While playing, players may not do anything that was not already explicitly agreed to.
  • Any participant in a scene has the right to withdraw consent at any time by means of an agreed-upon safeword, a non-verbal safe-sign, or using the house safeword “SAFEWORD”. Once consent is withdrawn, all activity in the scene must stop.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event, on Fetlife @Afterdark-Events, or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.

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